Learning the difference between agency, control, surrender, and the capacity to navigate uncertainty. For much of my life, I’ve done a LOT of dancing (and, if I’m honest, wrestling) with the tension between being “responsible” and actually trusting life. For many years, being responsible meant showing up. Working hard. Thinking ahead. Anticipating what could go wrong. Doing my part. . . and sometimes trying to do everyone else’s part, too. Hellooooo, codependency and martyrdo

What if meaningful change does not begin with one person saving the day? We aaalll want the magic. We want to know that the work we are doing matters. We want to believe that the problems we are facing can be transformed. We want to contribute to a better future, create meaningful impact, and leave something better than we found it. At the same time, many of us are living with a very real question. Where do we even begin? The world is changing quickly. Artificial intelligence

Well... things are continuing to get upgraded around here. Over the last several months, I've been letting go of old versions of my work, clearing out what no longer fits, and making room for what is emerging next. One of those changes has been creating a new home for my video work: my YouTube channel. Practice of Being in the Not-Yet The old channel carried a lot of old energy and iterations of my work in the world—therapist, early coach, old brand identities—and eventually