Learning the difference between agency, control, surrender, and the capacity to navigate uncertainty. For much of my life, I’ve done a LOT of dancing (and, if I’m honest, wrestling) with the tension between being “responsible” and actually trusting life. For many years, being responsible meant showing up. Working hard. Thinking ahead. Anticipating what could go wrong. Doing my part. . . and sometimes trying to do everyone else’s part, too. Hellooooo, codependency and martyrdo